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How To Overcome Jealousy in a Relationship

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How To Overcome Jealousy in a Relationship.
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Seek out other support.
Have interests outside your relationship. Talk to a friend about your jealous feelings, but don’t do this to the exclusion of talking to your partner.

Assess yourself.
If you’re in a secure and solid relationship, and you’re still feeling jealous, look at yourself and explore your own experiences.

Assess your relationship.
The best way to overcome jealousy is to first take a look at your romantic relationship. For instance, consider if your relationship is built on trust, respect and love.

Learn from your jealousy.
We can use feelings of jealousy as inspiration to grow. For instance, you realize that the reason you get jealous every time your friend plays her guitar is because that’s also something you’d like to do. Rather than wallowing in that jealousy, you sign up for guitar lessons.

Let it go.
Tell yourself that you don’t need this emotion in your life, and you’re relinquishing. Then breathe deeply, and imagine it flowing through you like the wind. Repeat as often as it takes to truly let it go.

Manage your emotions healthfully.
Practice mindfulness to calm your runaway emotions, take several deep breaths and try to detach from the intensity of those emotions.

Recognize your jealousy or Acknowledging that you’re jealous opens the door to learning. If your jealousy involves your romantic relationship, share your feelings with your partner after you calm down.